The Familiar Stranger, Part 4

THE FAMILIAR STRANGER
Keeping in Step with the Spirit
May 31, 2026 | By Tyler Carroll

Life is full of decisions. Some are small. Some change the direction of your future. Most of us wish God would simply tell us exactly what to do, but that’s not always how following Him works.

In this message, we explore what it means to keep in step with the Holy Spirit when life feels uncertain. Looking at the early church and the example of Jesus, we discover how God leads His people through discernment, wisdom, and trust rather than guarantees and perfect clarity.

Whether you’re facing a major crossroads or simply trying to follow God in everyday life, this message offers a practical framework for recognizing His voice and responding with confidence.

SETLIST

The Joy
The Belonging Company

Nobody But Jesus
Maverick City Music

Purse/ All I Need
Hillsong Worship

MESSAGE NOTES

Tyler Staton
“We talk a lot about the gift of the Holy Spirit and we think of external signs and miracles, but we don’t attend enough to the internal miracle that is the result of the long, slow internal miracle of becoming someone who…can connect in a personal and intimate way with the God of the universe, such that they can make wise decisions in the big and small things of our lives.”

How did Jesus always know what to say and do?

John 20v19-22
On the evening of that first day of the week, when the disciples were together, with the doors locked for fear of the Jewish leaders, Jesus came and stood among them and said, “Peace be with you!” After he said this, he showed them his hands and side. The disciples were overjoyed when they saw the Lord. Again Jesus said, “Peace be with you! As the Father has sent me, I am sending you.” And with that he breathed on them and said, “Receive the Holy Spirit.

God cares about the details of my life and the Spirit is always speaking.

Peter Greig
“If we are ever to feel fully safe and truly loved by the Lord of all the earth, we must eventually…learn to listen for his voice in the anticlimax of life’s nonevents.”

Acts15v1-29
Then some men came down from Judea and were teaching the brothers, “Unless you are circumcised according to the custom of Moses, you cannot be saved.” And after engaging these men in sharp debate, Paul and Barnabas were appointed, along with some other believers, to go up to Jerusalem to see the apostles and elders about this question. Sent on their way by the church, they passed through Phoenicia and Samaria, recounting the conversion of the Gentiles and bringing great joy to all the brothers. On their arrival in Jerusalem, they were welcomed by the church and apostles and elders, to whom they reported all that God had done through them. But some believers from the party of the Pharisees stood up and declared, “The Gentiles must be circumcised and required to obey the law of Moses.” So the apostles and elders met to look into this matter. After much discussion, Peter got up and said to them, “Brothers, you know that in the early days God made a choice among you that the Gentiles would hear from my lips the message of the gospel and believe. And God, who knows the heart, showed His approval by giving the Holy Spirit to them, just as He did to us. He made no distinction between us and them, for He cleansed their hearts by faith. Now then, why do you test God by placing on the necks of the disciples a yoke that neither we nor our fathers have been able to bear? On the contrary, we believe it is through the grace of the Lord Jesus that we are saved, just as they are.” The whole assembly fell silent as they listened to Barnabas and Paul describing the signs and wonders God had done among the Gentiles through them. When they had finished speaking, James declared, “Brothers, listen to me! Simon has told us how God first visited the Gentiles to take from them a people to be His own. The words of the prophets agree with this, as it is written: ‘After this I will return and rebuild the fallen tent of David. Its ruins I will rebuild, and I will restore it, so that the remnant of men may seek the Lord, and all the Gentiles who are called by My name, says the Lord who does these things that have been known for ages.’ It is my judgment, therefore, that we should not cause trouble for the Gentiles who are turning to God. Instead, we should write and tell them to abstain from food polluted by idols, from sexual immorality, from the meat of strangled animals, and from blood. For Moses has been proclaimed in every city from ancient times and is read in the synagogues on every Sabbath.” Then the apostles and elders, with the whole church, decided to select men from among them to send to Antioch with Paul and Barnabas. They chose Judas called Barsabbas and Silas, two leaders among the brothers, and sent them with this letter: The apostles and the elders, your brothers, To the brothers among the Gentiles in Antioch, Syria, and Cilicia: Greetings. It has come to our attention that some went out from us without our authorization and unsettled you, troubling your minds by what they said. So we all agreed to choose men to send to you along with our beloved Barnabas and Paul, men who have risked their lives for the name of our Lord Jesus Christ. Therefore we are sending Judas and Silas to tell you in person the same things we are writing. It seemed good to the Holy Spirit and to us not to burden you with anything beyond these essential requirements: You must abstain from food sacrificed to idols, from blood, from the meat of strangled animals, and from sexual immorality. You will do well to avoid these things. Farewell.

Questions to Ask
1. What is happening?
2. How should we think about this?
3. What should we do next?

Acts15v15
“It seemed good to the Holy Spirit and to us…”

Sarah Cowan Johnson
“[Action] invites us to put our money where our mouth is. Without it, our discipleship remains in the realm of the inner world–our experiences with God, our thoughts about God–but fails to touch our everyday lives.”

A Prayer for the Week
“Holy Spirit, would you find me in the everyday moments of life and help me discern your voice so that I can keep in step with you.”